It’s no magic, really!
It is surprising how no one will raise an eyebrow when someone says they took two months off from work because of marriage. And if I say I took a month off from work to travel, the first reaction is something akin to utter disbelief. That concept apparently doesn’t exist here! For the past three years I have heard this question time and again, every single time I meet a new person and every single time I meet an old friend. It gets as irritating as it is funny. Travel is perceived as a time pass and not as the life changing experience that it actually is. This makes someone who travels look like an idiot wasting his life having fun instead of doing something important like watching TV or wandering in the mall. They keep telling me, “I don’t have as much time as you do! “. In my head I retort back saying “I don’t have as much tolerance as you do for the mundane!”
If these are the non-believers there are few others who assume things. Assumptions that I get paid to travel or that I get additional leaves or that I am in the travel industry or my personal favorite, that I don’t work at all, and I am on a perpetual vacation(How I wish it were true!).
Quite recently a friend told me, he took a long break of a year or so to sort out few things, during that time he did travel a lot and came back to start afresh with a new job. He cleared all the technical rounds and then came the dreaded HR round, where someone tries to figure you out based on few questions, and how do they really do that anyway? But the point is, he didn’t say he was traveling during the break, he told sob stories of family problems and he landed the plush job! He says they don’t understand. I agree, they don’t understand, after all how is it possible to assume all these things about me when it is really quite simple.
So how in the hell do I really manage to get all those leaves then? Let’s do some simple math here.
Number if weekends in a year – 52*2 (Saturdays and Sundays)
Number of public Holidays – 12
Number of Leaves at work – 25
Total – 141 days!
There, is the mystery solved?
What this means is, in a given year, most of us are on leave for almost 40% of the time. We can travel for almost three months in a year. If you apply for a leave of 5 days, you are actually getting 9 days including the weekends. This means in a year you can go for 5 major trips of 10 days each. So you can go to Ladakh, Rajasthan, Sikkim, Andamans and one trip home, all in one year! And if there’s a festival or a public holiday around the corner, include that as well and you will get even more! See, it comes down to planning in the end. How well we plan in advance decides how many vacations we get. Now you know what’s the first thing I do at the beginning of the New Year and in case you don’t, I check the list of holidays, weekends etc and already decide when to go. Where to go is decided on go!
Being in Bangalore certainly has its advantages. Most places around here are just a weekend away. The treks in Western Ghats are doable in two days. Friday night we start and Monday morning we are back in office. No leaves to apply here, it is a weekend right?
Saving up the leaves and encashing them when I resign is not an option for me. I use up all my leaves and more if required but certainly wouldn’t let them be unused. My hometown is also just a weekend away, so there isn’t a need to apply leaves to go home either. All the leaves are used only for trips, not because I felt lazy in the morning to go to office or didn’t feel like working. If those were my excuses for taking a leave, then I wouldn’t have been writing on this blog today. I wouldn’t have traveled as much as I did.
You take all these leaves as well, you go home, get married or do something else that ranks high on your priority list. My priority list pretty much consists only of travel and that’s what I use the leaves for. There isn’t really much difference between what you and I do. You take leaves, I take leaves, we all take leaves, just for different reasons so don’t judge me next time when I tell you I am just back from a vacation.
You know when they say if you really want to do something you’ll find a way and if you don’t want to, you’ll find an excuse. That is true! I find my way to travel somehow. What about you?
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Travel and the friends i made during them changed my life for the good...I admire your passion for travel..Cheers
ReplyDeleteThanks Maruthi! I've made some good friends too on treks.
Delete:D I totally agree with you. I am fed up answering such questions. I just give a smirk and then excuse myself. I guess I can share your post for an explanation :-)
ReplyDeleteBTW, the new template looks neat and clean.
he he, I know! even I do that but it is so much fun to write a rant and maybe in the process I can clear the myths about the travel too! ;)
DeleteThanks!
People who don't travel much and use their free time for non-adventurous purposes are always baffled when someone does something different with their lives. It's baffling how they think getting married is completely normal, yet if you take a few weeks off to visit corners of the planet that you've never seen before, you instantly turn into a weirdo.
ReplyDeleteLOL, tell me about it! Totally freaks out people when they learn that money is spent on travel rather than a steady lifestyle and a house.
DeleteAbsolutely right Neelima.
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Thanks!
DeleteAWEsome........that such proves where there is a will there is alwayz a way!!!!
ReplyDeleteThanks Abhi! There will always be a way, if only we could find it! :)
DeleteI really really really am glad you wrote this post.I am gonna share it on my fb page.I can totally relate to this.
ReplyDeleteLOL, please do! More the people will know, lesser they will think of us as weirdos or jobless! :)
Deleteexcellent article neelima .. cudnt agree more :) especially liked the 1st para - i use to face exactly the same questions and feel the same way a couple of yrs back.
ReplyDeletewhen my travel frequency came down a little ... a lot of people used to counts it as 'settling down'!
btw ... there are periods of time in ur life, where this logic may not apply as well - like when u just had a kid :) but, if the 'period' takes up ur entire life then its not right
he he, agreed! Sometimes there are more important things in life than travel. :)
DeleteAs usual excellent post Neelima. Just curious, where does family, uncle, aunt, niece, nephew, neighbor-you-know, neighbor-you-dont-know, near-relative, relative-from-other-galaxy blah blah social commitment fit into all this :)
ReplyDeleteHmm, I barely manage to keep up with family commitment, social commitment practically doesn't exist in my life. But I try to keep up with friends too. And the rest I keep meeting them on treks and travels. :)
DeleteLOL!! I couldn't help but notice that this post is almost a retort to someone who really stepped hard on your toes this time.
ReplyDelete"....so don’t judge me next time when I tell you I am just back from a vacation."
"....I don’t have as much tolerance as you do for the mundane!”
Hope you sent that person an exclusive link to this post!!
Other than that cheers and travel madi :D
LOL, not one person in particular but I like that accusing tone in writing, it works very well to drive the point home and quite entertaining too, don't you think? ;)
DeleteBangalore is indeed a strategic location for outdoor guys. After coming here in 2007 Jan, I've been out on 22 adventures http://goo.gl/jR690 (self promo? hehe )
ReplyDelete22 - that is excluding normal trips to the hills, to the beaches.
I know, we can actually make a lot of trips in a year being in Bangalore. Hard for people elsewhere to understand.
DeleteCame here through Vamsee"s FB Link. I get this "you must be having a load of time on your hands to travel so much" A LOT !! Why don't they understand how enriching travelling is ! and all it needs is time management that's all !! (off course you also need itchy feet:) ) !
ReplyDeleteWelcome to my blog Ruchira, exactly my thoughts. A little planning and a lot of willingness is all it takes! :)
Deletetrue story! and a great travel blog - will revisit to read more wanderer's tales!
ReplyDeletecheers!
Thanks Anoop, glad you liked my blog.
Deletethe mystery solved at last !! happy trekking...
ReplyDeletehe he, thanks!
DeleteYes, one cannot just live for the weekends. That means you are relaxing only for 40% of your life. Of course, I am discounting public holidays here. Also, if one works for 30 years like a mad man that takes away the healthy window of life. What a shame.
ReplyDeleteAgreed! :)
DeleteNice Post Neelima. I suggest you a book called - "4 Hour Work Week" if you haven't already read it. To me that proved to be a guide of how to break through the monotony of work with small travelling vacations now and then.
ReplyDeleteHaven't heard of it, will try and pick it up!
DeleteAwesome post!! It's not only about travel..the same applies to Sports/Photography/others ..Same question..U have lot of time to do time pass :p
ReplyDeleteThanks for sharing n am gonna share it on my fb!!
True, if we do anything out of the ordinary, we are by default jobless! :)
DeleteTrue... hte nature the friends and the unexpected things hapen only in ppl who take challeges
ReplyDeleteThanks for this post... I was directed here through a friend..I am jus 3 months into my new job and am struggling with my leaves already cuz I want to at 2 places with no excuses - a week long Ladakh trip and my 1 month old nieces bday..they are happening within a weeks time of each other...I need a push!
ReplyDeleteis it right to ask for a leave so early?
You'll never know if you'll never ask! :) Maybe your team/manager is okay with you taking leaves. Tell them how important it is to you, both the events.
DeleteWorst case, prioritize, and ask leave for any one of the two.
and 1 month old niece's birthday? How so?
First kid of the first kid in the siblings...
Deletethe baby is going to be one spoilt brat!
I dont think so taking and getting leave is an issue. Actualy you must know what you want to do ... before we apply for a leave we try convince ourselfs we will not get so much of leave.. and company needs to so much and thats the bullshit !!
ReplyDeleteif you manage your yelf you will get it :)
ha ha, true but one also needs to manage/convince the manager! :P
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